Three Tips for Surviving Cuffing Season

It’s officially cuffing season—the time of year when single men and women entertain the idea of being “cuffed,” or tied down, by a serious relationship for the long, cold winter ahead. In theory, cuddling on the couch, watching football and celebrating the holidays are all the more enjoyable when you have a special someone to share them with. Like all good things, though, cuffing season inevitably comes to an end, with one or both people wishing to be “un-cuffed” in order to pursue greener pastures come warmer weather.

For those looking for a more serious relationship, however, this can be a frustrating conclusion after all the cold-weather canoodling. If you’re looking to get “cuffed” this season, follow these tips to avoid the pitfalls of short-term dating and make the most out of your fleeting holiday romance.

Be honest with yourself and your new bae. If you’re looking for a fling, say so up front. If you want something more serious, say that, too. That way, when cuffing season ends, you’ll both be on the same page.

It’s okay to “uncuff.” If it’s not working out, don’t be afraid to end your whirlwind winter courtship. Your time could be better spent with friends and family. Plus, there’s always next season!

Flirt tons and have fun! Dating during cuffing season is supposed to be an exhilarating, enjoyable experience. By living in the moment and enjoying every second—regardless of where the relationship is going—you’ll have zero regrets and plenty of happy memories.

Three’s a charm with Ménage a Trois
Cuffed or uncuffed, there is no better fire starter than the suggestion of a Ménage a Trois.